Fix floating-point edge case handling and add macOS ARM with OTP 28

- Remove problematic sed commands that broke std::isinf and std::isnan
- Add macOS-14 with OTP 28.0 and Elixir 1.18.4 to matrix
- Preserve proper infinity and NaN handling in C++ code

universal nif download for test

re-work for current nif and cache

add back mac steps

more changes

more specific compile flags for linux

adjust windows build and linux includes

fix up the issues

add support for windows binaries

Update precompile.yml