Gradle 6.5 includes a fix for gradle/gradle#12866, which
affects the performance of Scala compilation.

I profiled the scalac build with async profiler and 54% of the time was on GC
even after the Gradle upgrade (it was more than 60% before), so I switched to
the throughput GC (GC latency is less important for batch builds) and it
was reduced to 38%.

I also centralized the jvm configuration in `build.gradle` and simplified it a bit
by removing the minHeapSize configuration from the test tasks.

On my desktop, the time to execute clean builds with no cached Gradle daemon
was reduced from 127 seconds to 97 seconds. With a cached daemon, it was
reduced from 120 seconds to 88 seconds. The performance regression when
we upgraded to Gradle 6.x was 27 seconds with a cached daemon 
(#7677 (comment)), so it
should be fixed now.

Gradle 6.4 with no cached daemon:

```
BUILD SUCCESSFUL in 2m 7s
115 actionable tasks: 112 executed, 3 up-to-date
./gradlew clean compileScala compileJava compileTestScala compileTestJava  1.15s user 0.12s system 0% cpu 2:08.06 total
```

Gradle 6.4 with cached daemon:

```
BUILD SUCCESSFUL in 2m 0s
115 actionable tasks: 111 executed, 4 up-to-date
./gradlew clean compileScala compileJava compileTestScala compileTestJava  0.95s user 0.10s system 0% cpu 2:01.42 total
```

Gradle 6.5 with no cached daemon:

```
BUILD SUCCESSFUL in 1m 46s
115 actionable tasks: 111 executed, 4 up-to-date
./gradlew clean compileScala compileJava compileTestScala compileTestJava  1.27s user 0.12s system 1% cpu 1:47.71 total
```

Gradle 6.5 with cached daemon:

```
BUILD SUCCESSFUL in 1m 37s
115 actionable tasks: 111 executed, 4 up-to-date
./gradlew clean compileScala compileJava compileTestScala compileTestJava  1.02s user 0.10s system 1% cpu 1:38.31 total
```

This PR with no cached Gradle daemon:

```
BUILD SUCCESSFUL in 1m 37s
115 actionable tasks: 81 executed, 34 up-to-date
./gradlew clean compileScala compileJava compileTestScala compileTestJava  1.27s user 0.10s system 1% cpu 1:38.70 total
```

This PR with cached Gradle daemon:

```
BUILD SUCCESSFUL in 1m 28s
115 actionable tasks: 111 executed, 4 up-to-date
./gradlew clean compileScala compileJava compileTestScala compileTestJava  1.02s user 0.10s system 1% cpu 1:29.35 total
```

Reviewers: Manikumar Reddy <[email protected]>, Chia-Ping Tsai <[email protected]>

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* apache-github/trunk:
  KAFKA-9788; Use distinct names for transaction and group load time sensors (#8784)
  KAFKA-9514; The protocol generator generated useless condition when a field is made nullable and flexible version is used (#8793)
  MINOR: Update to Gradle 6.5 and tweak build jvm config (#8751)
  MINOR: Upgrade spotbugs and spotbugsPlugin (#8790)
  KAFKA-10089 The stale ssl engine factory is not closed after reconfigure (#8792)
  KAFKA-10080; Fix race condition on txn completion which can cause duplicate appends (#8782)
  KAFKA-10084: Fix EosTestDriver end offset (#8785)
  KAFKA-10083: fix failed testReassignmentWithRandomSubscriptionsAndChanges tests (#8786)