fix r2dbc package

Merge branch 'update/elastic4s-core-8.16.0'

Merge branch 'update/elastic4s-core-8.15.4'

Update sbt, sbt-dependency-tree, ... to 1.10.5

Update scala-xml to 2.3.0

use config for numberOfProjectionInstances instead of val override

fix test

Merge branch 'main' into update/framework-8.14.3

fix AbstractMethodException by using bridge

increase build memory